Dump the ‘waiting ‘

Time to dump the “waiting “.
When nobody else celebrates You, learn to celebrate Yourself.
When nobody else compliments You, then compliment Yourself.
It’s not upto other people to keep You encouraged. It’s upto You…
Self – love, Self respect, Self- approval and Self-worth does not make You selfish…..

Have a great day.

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Fortune cookies & tarot

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Hey Friends, I’m going to be doing tarot readings at the dessert Garden this Saturday & Sunday evening ( 19 & 20 Nov ) at High street Phoenix, Lower Parel, Mumbai. So come by, enjoy some desserts and know your future too.

– Manju Mohinani Patil
P.S. We have exciting offers for tarot reading clubbed with fortune cookies. Don’t miss out !!!

Second series of love cards- Choose your relationship card

celeste-choose-relationship-cardThe second series of choose and reveal! How can you better your relationship? Take time to clear your mind and pick the card you’re most drawn to. (from left to right- 1,2, and 3) The cards will reveal ways in which you can better your relationship to its most fruitful expression. I will be putting up the reveal tomorrow. Please don’t forget to tag your partner or someone you think needs clarity in their relationship in the comments below!

My body is my friend

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Our body is made up of cells and each of these cells has its own intelligence and memory. The cells in our body are constantly imbibing everything that we hear and all that is going on around us. All information, positive and negative, is stored in the cellular memory and the cells respond accordingly. For example when you keep saying : I am so fat, it is difficult for me to lose weight, – this is all that your cells are hearing and so they respond to these statements – by holding on to the fat – so that your statement “ I am so fat ‘ remains so in your reality.
As you learn to talk to your body lovingly and positively – it responds to you in a positive manner. Issues of weight loss, ugliness, and complexion are no longer a struggle. Consider your body as your friend and walk the path together. Thus making the journey one of least effort and most results. Respect your body’s intelligence by talking AND listening to it.

In the morning as you begin your day and in the night as you end your day – use the technique to talk to your body and watch amazing results.
Lovingly touch your skin and talk to your body. Say that you love your body and thank it for functioning in wonderful order. Thank your body for serving you and your life purpose.

When you are trying to lose weight, or gain weight or removal of disease or any work with the body, understand you are not alone in it. Your body is an integral part of it and of you. Make your body your friend and work with it, rather than taking it for granted and just “doing to” or even experimenting the body.

For weight loss: a minute just prior to beginning your exercise routine, speak to your body lovingly. Assure your body that you will respect its limits. Affirm to yourself: My body is of the weight best suited for me to be healthy’. All excess weight is easily and effortlessly being dropped. Also add that you are helping your body drop all the excess weight. You both are working together towards good health.

For disease: Speak to your body that you are ready to release the pile up of past emotions and that it need not store these past emotions in your body. Ask the body for it to be released gently, just as much as you can handle. Affirm to yourself: “The past no longer exists. I let go easily and gently.” “I love myself, I value myself.”

For beauty: Move your palms on your face, feeling the smoothness of your skin. Talk to your body to release all toxins, emotional and physical, that keep your skin from its natural glow. Affirm to yourself, preferably, in front of the mirror “My skin is radiant and healthy. I am happy. I am a beautiful child of the Universe.

As you practice talking to your body, it will respond to you. You now need to learn to listen to your body and understand these responses. You will suddenly be attracted towards certain type of foods more than you have ever been. You might want to try new foods. If your body requires movement, you will be drawn to new forms of exercise, dance or walk. Whatever no longer serves you to remain healthy the body will simply reject. You will find your body rejecting foods that you may have always been eating. The body rejects by – lack of taste, upset stomach, sweat. Never force your body – for anything. It is simply disrespectful. Make your body your friend today, the rewards are sweet.

Manju Mohinani Patil

Disclaimer: The above are the author’s own views on the subject. This is not to replace or subsitute any medical treatment or medications or supplements.

Choose a love card for your relationship

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It’s Choose and Reveal day!  Where are you in your relationship right now? Take time to clear your mind, choose and comment below the card you’re most drawn to. (from left to right) The cards will reveal the position of your current relationship with your partner and how it is affecting you. I will be posting the reveal tomorrow so keep a check on this space. Please do not forget to tag your partner and/or someone you think needs clarity in their relationship in the comments below.

If you’re ashamed of your past, you’ll hardly be proud of your future.

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As I go through life, there are so many things that I want to do. My actions at each stage of life, I believe are based on so many different factors. But am I responsible for my actions or is it the others that have to bear that cross. Some of our actions make us successful and bring about a positive change in our life and some bring about a negative. We often tend to look back and feel just as good about the past as we feel ashamed. There are some incidents we are proud of and some which make us feel ashamed. There are incidents that still come to my mind.
People who have come up the hard way sometimes are uncomfortable talking about their past. They somewhere tend to forget that it is this past that has made them and be what they are. There is a feeling to alienate oneself from the previous surroundings and look towards the bright future only. Maybe a question at this point needs to be asked. If our past embarrasses us, how will we be able to be proud about our future? Every phase of life is a learning experience and it is up to us what to make of such an experience. If we are in a position to look at the positive side of every experience, we have no need to feel ashamed at all. There are so many examples of people being bus conductors, delivery boys, sales girls, ticket checkers who have climbed the pinnacle of success today. It is their then surrounding that further gave rise to their need to taste success. A foundation that is built in difficult times can rarely be weak. When we feel ashamed, we are feeling ashamed with a part of ourselves. Completion leads to achievement. When we have come to terms, accepted and are complete with the past. Then miraculously the doors of rewards, success and good fortune open up to you.

– Manju Mohinani Patil

Fidelity is not a matter of opportunity, it is a decision you make.

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The world is full of choices. Choices of what you wish to do or not to do. There are some choices which are easier to make and some not so easy. But, yes there is always a choice. Even when we turn around and say that we have no choice, that too,is a choice.
Relationships hold a different meaning today than they were a few years ago. Being true to a partner today for many holds a different meaning than what it meant some years back. The difference between fidelity and infidelity actually is not in the environment or the relationship but in the mind. Many people have confided in me telling me of the times when they felt this strong attraction against the other person, how fate put them together, how they happened to meet outside their marriage and well, sparks flew and things happened. I have heard about it being the ambiance, the environment, the people around, the stress, the situation, nature, fate, children and friends being many reasons for looking out or at out of a marriage for someone else. But where does it all start? It’s all about the choices you make for yourself.
Today fidelity or infidelity is a decision that is made and is not an opportunity as many believe it to be so. There are many opportunities that will always come your way, but the ones to choose or discard will ultimately be your decision. Loyalty and faithfulness are consciously acted upon. Everyone has been tempted and one can always find various reasons to look outside their present relationship.
When we are secure and contented within, then fidelity is a natural flow in a relationship.

-Manju Mohinani Patil