Dump the ‘waiting ‘

Time to dump the “waiting “.
When nobody else celebrates You, learn to celebrate Yourself.
When nobody else compliments You, then compliment Yourself.
It’s not upto other people to keep You encouraged. It’s upto You…
Self – love, Self respect, Self- approval and Self-worth does not make You selfish…..

Have a great day.


The cards reveal

img-20161106-wa0013Reveal from  yesterday’s post! What message did you get? How did it resonate with you? Comment below and tag a friend who needs clarity in their relationship today!

  • 1). (Left) Radiant love – You feel love’s sacred flame burn within your heart. You or a lover will realize the essence of true love, and because of that your love may be eternal.

2). (Right) Pure Devotion – You will feel love light and illuminate your life when new love appears or is rekindled. You may meanwhile struggle forgetting a memory or someone you were truly attached to. There is an opportunity to create an unknown spice in your love or even find a new lover. In contrast to misery, love will appear even brighter.

3). (Center) Captured heart – This card shows that there’s some kind of clarity missing in the relationship. The relationship you’re in is either selfish or not adding the value in your life that it needs to. Either you should talk to your partner about being more present or start doing so yourself. Both of your mutual understanding and cooperation will lead to a fruitful relationship.

Fidelity is not a matter of opportunity, it is a decision you make.


The world is full of choices. Choices of what you wish to do or not to do. There are some choices which are easier to make and some not so easy. But, yes there is always a choice. Even when we turn around and say that we have no choice, that too,is a choice.
Relationships hold a different meaning today than they were a few years ago. Being true to a partner today for many holds a different meaning than what it meant some years back. The difference between fidelity and infidelity actually is not in the environment or the relationship but in the mind. Many people have confided in me telling me of the times when they felt this strong attraction against the other person, how fate put them together, how they happened to meet outside their marriage and well, sparks flew and things happened. I have heard about it being the ambiance, the environment, the people around, the stress, the situation, nature, fate, children and friends being many reasons for looking out or at out of a marriage for someone else. But where does it all start? It’s all about the choices you make for yourself.
Today fidelity or infidelity is a decision that is made and is not an opportunity as many believe it to be so. There are many opportunities that will always come your way, but the ones to choose or discard will ultimately be your decision. Loyalty and faithfulness are consciously acted upon. Everyone has been tempted and one can always find various reasons to look outside their present relationship.
When we are secure and contented within, then fidelity is a natural flow in a relationship.

-Manju Mohinani Patil

Heal with colour



Everything around us is made up of energy at various frequencies. Each colour vibrates at a different frequency. We use this difference in vibration of frequencies to heal at the emotional level.
You may sit or lie down. Relax your body and wear comfortable clothing. Visualise the required colour coming from the Universal energy space into the palms of your hands. Gently place your palms on or just above the affected area of your body. Visualise the colour coming through your palms into your body, entering the cells and allowing the cells to heal. To increase the vibrations of the colour, light a candle of the appropriate colour during the healing.
Repeat the healing for 3-5 days, preferably twice a day. Allow healing for about 10-15mins each time. You may use this technique to heal yourself, others, plants, animals, even the Earth
Healing water using colour therapy: Place some water in a glass exposed to the morning sun. ( ideally, before 9:30am or within 3 hours of the rising sun ) Cover the water with coloured glass. As the rays ff the sun pass through this coloured glass, the water is energized with the colour as well as the healing properties of the sun.


Red: Colour of energy, vitality and power. Helps to reduce pain. Not suitable for high blood pressure and anxiety prone persons.

Orange: colour of ambition, success, achievement, sexual potency. Helps in digestive ailments. Not suitable for nervous persons.

Yellow: Colour for mental stimulation, clarity and confidence. Helps in skin and digestive problems.

Green: Colour of healing. Use for overall well-being. Regrowth of tissues and cells. Heals wounds, good for weak bones.

Blue: Colour of peace and clam. Use during fevers and bleeding.

Purple/ lavender: Colour of meditative and psychic energies. Use this colour for headaches, body aches, deep tissue massage.

Pink: colour of relaxation and harmony. Used to free oneself of grieving and emotional pain.
Brings a sense of balance within.

Disclaimer: please note, none of the above is any substitute, in part or whole, for any medication or medical treatment. Please consult your doctor.

– Manju Mohinani Patil