Dump the ‘waiting ‘

Time to dump the “waiting “.
When nobody else celebrates You, learn to celebrate Yourself.
When nobody else compliments You, then compliment Yourself.
It’s not upto other people to keep You encouraged. It’s upto You…
Self – love, Self respect, Self- approval and Self-worth does not make You selfish…..

Have a great day.

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Woman Power

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This poem always reminds me that we, as women are so powerful because of the way we love so fiercely, as though the world is our home and we feel the need to make everyone living in it free and at ease. And that’s exactly what the Daughter of Wands reflects in her character. This card is a clear interpretation of the fact that your very life itself is a work of art. You are being asked to step forward into something that resonates with your authentic self.Woman, you have the ability to make the world a more beautiful place. It’s high time you start believing that.
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The cards reveal

img-20161106-wa0013Reveal from  yesterday’s post! What message did you get? How did it resonate with you? Comment below and tag a friend who needs clarity in their relationship today!

  • 1). (Left) Radiant love – You feel love’s sacred flame burn within your heart. You or a lover will realize the essence of true love, and because of that your love may be eternal.

2). (Right) Pure Devotion – You will feel love light and illuminate your life when new love appears or is rekindled. You may meanwhile struggle forgetting a memory or someone you were truly attached to. There is an opportunity to create an unknown spice in your love or even find a new lover. In contrast to misery, love will appear even brighter.

3). (Center) Captured heart – This card shows that there’s some kind of clarity missing in the relationship. The relationship you’re in is either selfish or not adding the value in your life that it needs to. Either you should talk to your partner about being more present or start doing so yourself. Both of your mutual understanding and cooperation will lead to a fruitful relationship.

Choose a love card for your relationship

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It’s Choose and Reveal day!  Where are you in your relationship right now? Take time to clear your mind, choose and comment below the card you’re most drawn to. (from left to right) The cards will reveal the position of your current relationship with your partner and how it is affecting you. I will be posting the reveal tomorrow so keep a check on this space. Please do not forget to tag your partner and/or someone you think needs clarity in their relationship in the comments below.

If you’re ashamed of your past, you’ll hardly be proud of your future.

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As I go through life, there are so many things that I want to do. My actions at each stage of life, I believe are based on so many different factors. But am I responsible for my actions or is it the others that have to bear that cross. Some of our actions make us successful and bring about a positive change in our life and some bring about a negative. We often tend to look back and feel just as good about the past as we feel ashamed. There are some incidents we are proud of and some which make us feel ashamed. There are incidents that still come to my mind.
People who have come up the hard way sometimes are uncomfortable talking about their past. They somewhere tend to forget that it is this past that has made them and be what they are. There is a feeling to alienate oneself from the previous surroundings and look towards the bright future only. Maybe a question at this point needs to be asked. If our past embarrasses us, how will we be able to be proud about our future? Every phase of life is a learning experience and it is up to us what to make of such an experience. If we are in a position to look at the positive side of every experience, we have no need to feel ashamed at all. There are so many examples of people being bus conductors, delivery boys, sales girls, ticket checkers who have climbed the pinnacle of success today. It is their then surrounding that further gave rise to their need to taste success. A foundation that is built in difficult times can rarely be weak. When we feel ashamed, we are feeling ashamed with a part of ourselves. Completion leads to achievement. When we have come to terms, accepted and are complete with the past. Then miraculously the doors of rewards, success and good fortune open up to you.

– Manju Mohinani Patil

Fidelity is not a matter of opportunity, it is a decision you make.

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The world is full of choices. Choices of what you wish to do or not to do. There are some choices which are easier to make and some not so easy. But, yes there is always a choice. Even when we turn around and say that we have no choice, that too,is a choice.
Relationships hold a different meaning today than they were a few years ago. Being true to a partner today for many holds a different meaning than what it meant some years back. The difference between fidelity and infidelity actually is not in the environment or the relationship but in the mind. Many people have confided in me telling me of the times when they felt this strong attraction against the other person, how fate put them together, how they happened to meet outside their marriage and well, sparks flew and things happened. I have heard about it being the ambiance, the environment, the people around, the stress, the situation, nature, fate, children and friends being many reasons for looking out or at out of a marriage for someone else. But where does it all start? It’s all about the choices you make for yourself.
Today fidelity or infidelity is a decision that is made and is not an opportunity as many believe it to be so. There are many opportunities that will always come your way, but the ones to choose or discard will ultimately be your decision. Loyalty and faithfulness are consciously acted upon. Everyone has been tempted and one can always find various reasons to look outside their present relationship.
When we are secure and contented within, then fidelity is a natural flow in a relationship.

-Manju Mohinani Patil